And again…a man with 1000 lies!

My experience with Andy was relatively brief however confusing and disturbing all the same. A friend whom had connected with him on Facebook suggested that I contact him since we both lived in Tasmania. I messaged him on 27th March 2008 and he was pretty quick to reply. He told me that he had 3 sons, aged 5, 3 and 2. He told me that he was a lawyer, that he had recently left channel 9 and had started with Wesfarmers Insurance. He claimed to be still married but separated for the last 6 months. I had asked if he just had the three boys or any other children, and he said, and I quote ”I have my 3 boys and no hidden ones I know about..”. He also claimed that he had not been seeing anyone during the past 6 months, that he wasn’t really interested and was happy focusing on his work. We had a few dates in amongst many messages and emails over a period of about 5 months, before I told him that I wouldn’t accept being treated so poorly. We’d catch up and have a wonderful time, he would talk about our plans for the future with ease and excitement, but then cease contact for a week or two, sometimes even more. I guess that was to be expected with the amount of women he was investing time into. Andy has no regard for anyone other than himself and his behaviour is disgusting. He talked about growing old together, traveling and meeting all of my family, that he couldn’t wait to meet my daughter and for me to meet his boys. He expressed his feelings so openly it actually was a little surprising. The details in which he gave about his life and the information of mine that he retained made it almost impossible to believe that he was anything but genuine. The only good thing to come out of meeting Andy has been the wonderful women it has put me in touch with once we realised the truth about him and I’m very grateful to have not let myself get too close to him. I’m sorry for all the women he has lied to and am pleased to see him fully exposed!